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Thursday 22 May 2014

MARRIAGE - HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE A CONJUGAL BLISS: A MARITAL BLISS: THE BEST ARTICLE EVER: GET THE BEST TIPS:

For a successful marriage, to benefit those who are going to get married and also for those who are already living a married life. How to live a happy married life: How to make your marriage a perfect conjugal bliss, marital bliss, connubial bliss, or a heavenly bliss: Follow simple steps:

You will definitely agree that happiness in your marriage is as essential as food is for starvation. Perhaps you'd like to be happier in your marriage, or you're thinking about getting married and you're looking for hints and tips. Here's some good advice for living a happily married life. In other words a kind of relationship advice for a healthy married life.

It has been rightly said; Marriages are made in Heaven and executed on earth. In normal course you marry to the one who is genetically similar and acceptable to you. Science has also proved this. By your instincts, you accept to marry your partner, only if your chemistry matches. Only then you will like to be in the company of each other for all your life or be able to stay together. Most of the arranged marriages are successful or have a higher or better prospects of success, only because this aspect gets taken care of by the elderly members of your families. Leave aside the exceptions where the arranged marriages take place out of some selfish motives, and some of the love marriages taking place without much understanding and maturity.

Once you are married, the first and foremost is to respect each other's views at all times. Give importance to each other’s views or opinion and try to understand the reasons behind having the same. This is possible when you thoroughly understand each other’s family background before marriage and your upbringing from childhood. This is one of the important keys to make your marriage really successful and blissful. This will prove to be very useful in maintaining harmony in your married life forever.

Give special and particular attention to what your spouse wants, believes and likes. It would be ideal and advisable to work out a mutually acceptable solution instead of any one of you insisting on his or her ideas. Do not disappoint your partner, and if you do so unknowingly then keeping aside your ego, say "I'm really very sorry” from the bottom of your heart, which is a real truthful and sincere apology.

Effective communication is the key. Listen to each other properly, and try to understand thoroughly what your partner wants to say. Do not listen halfheartedly or partially and respond with your assumptions. Do not create; however just avoid unnecessary disagreements and quarrels or fights. Try to eliminate every situation that springs anger or quarrel. That is the biggest setback. Be committed to make your marriage a marital bliss for the benefit and better future of your children. Stop any disagreement or quarrel at the first step itself, do not allow it to multiply or else it will be continue in a cyclic tandem. Both of you should forget any unpleasant utterances, in no time or almost immediately. 

Get feedback from each other as to what one dislikes of the other. Make every effort to change, and better transform yourself. A mere change is very much distinct from a transformation. A change is temporary and clearly not deep enough to the depth of your identity. You will be right back to your old habits or behavior without your notice as the time passes by. A change is reversible, whereas a transformation is not. Transformation remains stable over time and there is no going back. Please also note that you cannot have transformation without change, but you can have change for a short time without transformation. Once transformed you cannot reverse, however it will require another transformation to bring you back to your old habits or behavior. This will really help in making your marriage successful, stronger, working better, and make your marriage life happy. Help yourself in making your marriage blissful and merrier.

Both of you (husband and wife) should give highest importance and support to each other over everything else. You and your spouse are bonded permanently with each other as compared to anything else. Keep your bond strong by showing true, genuine respect and consideration for each other’s preferences over the needs and wishes of others.

Express your true love for each other as often as possible and say “I love you”.  Always start your day with a warm kiss or a hug.



Go on a long drive or an evening walk, and spend time with each other having only two of you alone. How can you know that you both are best tuned with each other? The answer is if you both are spending time with each other for hours together in the same room, without uttering even a word, on occasions such as when you are relaxed or on a holiday, or you have no plans to do anything special. Both of you may be doing different things reading, playing game on tab, or watching TV etc. This is one of the best test or the acid test to prove fine tuning between a husband and wife.

Share your thoughts with each other decently and politely when you plan to do something together. Do this with an open heart and without any prejudices. Talk with each other with a totally free mind as if you are talking to yourself. This would improve communication between you. Do not use harsh words to hurt your spouse in anger or even unintentionally as they are hard to forget especially for your spouse. If there is an argument then let it be on the topic of discussion only and do not take the matter to attack personally on each other. Never try to win any argument. If one of you is getting angry, the other should keep restraint.

Live in the present and do not discuss and repeat the past unpleasant experiences or utterances. Leave the past behind and be in the present, and think of better future.

At times cook for your spouse or make tea or coffee. Same is true for your spouse. Remember that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Cook delicious food that your husband prefers the most, and remain in his heart forever. 

Husband and wife are ideally and spiritually are like one soul and two bodies; if you hurt each other, you hurt yourselves as well.

Always do those little things for each other which brings smile on your faces and gives you a feeling of being loved. Love is the most important part or in short an essence of a harmonious and blissful married life.

Help your spouse in household work eg. Keeping things in place and making up the bed. At times surprise each other with little gifts or tokens of appreciation, and make the moments very special and hard to forget. What are important are your thoughts and not the price of gift. The gifts need not be rich and expensive, even a chocolate cake is enough to make your memories sweet and lasting forever. Don't forget to wish each other on the wedding day anniversary. Your spouse's birthday is also most special and do wish her with all your heart. Never forget a gift for marriage anniversary or wedding anniversary and also a birthday gift for your partner.

Honestly appreciate each other about the good qualities each one of you has. Doing it otherwise will have negative impact in your life. Do not compare your married life with others. The grass always looks to be greener on the other side which is really not so.

If you cheat on your partner it will spoil your relationships, so make sure to always be honest with your spouse! Do not ever think of anyone else. This would ensure a happiest married life. Keep up with your marriage vows and avoid any relationship problems. Marriage counseling by qualified professionals is required if things go beyond your control due to some reason, and I think it will be the last thing to go for in order to save your marriage.

Follow everything and take this as a guarantee to get success in making your marriage a conjugal bliss.

Get the blessings what Zaratrushta gave to his daughter (bride) and to the son in law (bridegroom) – “May you each win the other through righteousness, it would indeed be the greatest acquisition for each of you”. 

One should never forget that marriage is a meeting of minds and not merely bodies. Marriage is not a contract or agreement; it is a sacrament or a holy binding and an eternal or perpetual bondage. Marriage is an institution in which there is a social acceptance to interpersonal and sexual relationship between a man and woman thus maintaining social order or controlling social entropy. Though marriage is a gamble, a thorough and holistic understanding of the hypothesis is the master key not just for making your marriage happy or successful but to make it a happiest, heavenly or in short a marital bliss or a conjugal bliss. 

Definition, meaning and explanation of conjugal bliss: Conjugal refers to sex between couples with a relationship like marriage or the sociology of marriage. Bliss means happiness. So, conjugal bliss refers to a satisfying sexual relationship between couples in a relationship. Another similar word is connubial bliss.

Conjugal happiness is the happiness expected out of a marriage. A wedded couple can be said to enjoy a conjugal bliss if they lead a happy married life, by loving each other and by remaining or being faithful to each other. Conjugal rights are the rights a person gets as a result of marriage. The conditions necessary for conjugal bliss include the married couple accepting each other's views and each forgiving each other’s mistakes. If the husband and wife are of divergent opinions and attitudes, and if their personalities clash, then their marriage cannot last long and their conjugal happiness becomes short-lived.

(Meaning reference as per the free dictionary / cobuild dictionary / oxford dictionary)



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